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Season 2, Episode 8- The stories you tell yourself about dating

Season 2, Episode 8 – “The stories you tell yourself about dating”

Secrets to successful dating FREE masterclass on 27th of September at 1pm BST/8am EST. 

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🌟 Uncover the hidden secrets to dating that will empower you and make you feel excited again about meeting your dream man in the future.

🌟 Gain invaluable insights into why past attempts at love may not have yielded the results you desired. 

🌟 Walk away armed with a strategic roadmap to seize control of your love life and propel yourself toward the relationship of your dreams.

PLUS, you’ll be learning from a seasoned expert with over 15 years of experience in guiding men and women on their journey to fulfilling relationships.

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Welcome to “How to Love Successfully” with Dr. Mari Kovanen, a podcast designed for high-achieving women seeking committed, long-term relationships. In this episode, Dr. Mari dives into the crucial role of mindset in dating. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing and challenging limiting beliefs that can hinder your dating journey.

Dr. Mari discusses three common stories that women often tell themselves when it comes to dating. First, the belief that there are no good men out there can be a significant obstacle. She highlights the difference between a closed mindset, where you accept limiting beliefs, and a growth mindset, which encourages exploration and learning in dating.

The second story revolves around the idea that you need to change something about yourself, such as your appearance, to find love. Dr. Mari reminds listeners that they are worthy of love just as they are and offers insights into building self-confidence.

Finally, she addresses the misconception that you need to take control and exert immense effort in dating. Dr. Mari encourages a more relaxed approach, allowing space for meaningful connections to develop naturally.

Listeners are invited to reflect on their own dating beliefs and are encouraged to attend Dr. Mari’s upcoming masterclass on 27th of September at 1pm BST / 8am EST to learn more about cultivating the right mindset for successful dating. The key takeaway is that by giving yourself love and nurturing a positive mindset, you can attract the love you desire.


Time stamps:

[02:40] Story #1 – There are no good people in my environment / online

[06:03] Story #2 – I need to be…X…to find love

[08:51] Story #3 – I have to be in charge…

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Ready to take charge of your love life and finally find the relationship you deserve?

If you are interested in working with me, fill in an application for the 1:1 coaching process. 

It takes you through the 4-step process, Empowered Love Blueprint. 

Go from a frustrated and confused dater to feeling confident, empowered to set standards and set boundaries, and having clarity on the type of guy would be a good fit and how to recognise him. Dating is a skill and you will learn how to communicate what you want and need from day 1 of meeting someone. 

Apply for a  complimentary 30min consultation to talk about your dating situation and gain clarity on what is not working for you and how to change that. 



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Dr. Mari Kovanen

Conscious Dating Coach

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